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I told Maddie that we were meeting friends downtown to carpool to a museum event together to Connecticut.

Photo: Allan Zepeda
on the bar counter.
I was such a nervous wreck that I left my glasses in the Uber we took there!
Even though there was already a proposal, Maddie wanted J to experience that incredible surprise, too.
displayed on the Jumbotron.
Little did I know…
If I had, I would have worn something nicer than my George Costanza Yankees jersey.
I love that being queer allows us to both experience the magic of a proposal.
We think everyone should have that!
Its our forever home and where we feel safest and happiest, says J. Maddie and J worked with plannerMarcy Blumto execute their wedding weekend experience.
The wedding day itself broke from traditional form, with plenty of key elements coming in pairs.
Everyone knows cocktail hour at weddings is sometimes the best part, so we thought, Lets have two!
Maddie donned a rose corset top and oversize tuxedo pants byDanielle FrankelandManolo Blahnikpearl heels.
We wanted to have fun by playing with her wearing pants while I wore a kilt.
After the first cocktail hour, Maddie changed into aChanelruched strapless top and lace skirt withMaria Tashdiamond stud earrings.
A few years ago, I came across the designerEmily Bode.
They wore custom Bode shorts and a shacket made out of an unused army infirmary blanket to exchange vows.