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AVogueeditor asks: What should I wear to my stepfathers funeral?

Can I wear florals if the background is black?

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Are dark tones okay?

Brown, burgundy, gray or should I stick to black or navy?

Two looks from the most recent season of shows that are perfectly suited for a funeral or beyond.No.

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Two looks from the most recent season of shows that are perfectly suited for a funeral or beyond.No. 21, fall 2025 ready-to-wear

At aspecial memorial for the photographer Bill Cunningham, attendees dressed in their Sunday best for Bill.

Wont wear the dress again?

you could back up your star fits for another time.

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McQueen, fall 2025 ready-to-wear

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Lauryn Hill wore an opulent blouse by Willy Chavarria to pay homage to Roberta Flack at her memorial service in New York earlier this year.