The couples engagement, though, was a three-part saga.

We would switch wearing it every couple of days.

It was her first ring commission, but I knew she would make the perfect ring.

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Photo: Ryan McGinley

Bobbi was working the grill and I surprised them with two Zebus, or miniature cows.

All our family and friends in attendance already knew the proposal was happening so they came outside.

I asked Bobbi to hold the lead line and got down on one knee.

We sang made-up pop songs to the cows throughout the day.

I have many fond memories of meeting up with friends and having meetings over dinner or giggling over creative.

Thankfully, this wasnt their first time throwing a party.

We also had our friend Nico Coppelman come on as food coordinator and that was our core dream team.

For their wedding looks, the design process was fully bespoke.

Bobbi knew from the outset they wanted to collaborate with designerClaire Sullivanof Miss Claire Sullivan.

I wore it with a Margiela cowboy slipper.

Once the big day arrived, Bobbi and Quori got experimental with their glam.

They even created a trompe-lil stocking in the moment, airbrushing right onto the lace.

Kennedy created Quoris ethereal boy beat as well.

Even the hair served multiple purposes, when tendrils were glued to my face as eyeliner.