So, for an expert guide to dress-code etiquette, we turned to Erlanger and bridal stylistAnny Choifor guidance.

Can You Wear White to a Wedding?

The simple answer is no, unless the invite calls for it, Choi says.

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Photo: Joshua Bright and Ali Smith

This rule does vary for those wearing a suit, though.

Why Cant You Wear White to a Wedding?

Traditionally, white is a color that is reserved forthe bride.

The Princess of Wales arrives at her wedding with her maid of honor Pippa Middleton in 2011.

The Princess of Wales arrives at her wedding with her maid of honor Pippa Middleton in 2011.

What About Ivory and Cream?

What a bride looks like today varies and can be so different.

How Much White Is Acceptable in a Wedding Guest Outfit?

As long as the main color doesn’t read as white, youre in the clear, Erlanger says.

Wearing a dress with a print that includes white can often leave people guessing.

Colorful dress with white on the print?

It’s probably fine to wear.

As Choi points out,certain colorscan be photographed to look like white, too.

The best rule of thumb?

If you’re questioning it, it’s probably not something you should wear.

Go back to your closet and make another fashion statement that wont risk people getting angry at you.

What Can Brides and Grooms Do to Communicate the Dress Code?

By no means is it an instruction manual, but it points guests in the right direction.

Unless it is a wild disco party, avoid colors that really stand out, Erlanger says.

Avoid neons, avoid red, avoid anything thats super loud.

Unless, of course, your friends getting married at a rave.

And dont get me wrongIm sure thats happened before!

Its also important to consider any cultural traditions that may be practiced at the celebration.