At the time, I was humiliated, but now I think: Howcouldit have been believable?

I had next to no experience with good, communicative sex, and no experienceat allwith queer sex.

All I had to go on, in the end, wasDr.

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Nonetheless, I cant help but be grateful for the tools and perspectives Westheimer has given me.