Stressing over what to wear to a wedding is a common style conundrum.

But when youreinthe wedding?

The stakes are just that much higher.

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Photo: Nicole Plett

I was honored to perform the duty for two of my nearest-and-dearest.

Normally, finding a suitable look as a wedding guestisnt rocket sciencefor men.

A classic suitin navy, black, or neutral linens for summerwill always feel appropriate for ceremonies.

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My officiant look by Watson Ellis.

But anordainersuit proved to be a little more of a challenge.

I did have some fashion guidelines.

Still, I was perplexed.

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Details of the Watson Ellis suit.

How do I find a suit that feels on-theme, yet doesnt distract from the happy couple?

My officiant look by Watson Ellis.

Details of the Watson Ellis suit.

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The bride, Nadine Loyd, and the officiant, Christian Allaire.

We want people to come in and feel comfortable with the process.

The design process began with an initial consultation at the brands atelier, where Ellis took my measurements.

I feel like all-white might be a little too bride-y, says Ellis.

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The ordainer at work—in the perfect suit.

Next up, we toyed with different jacket silhouettes.

Both Ellis and I agreed that a double-breasted shape felt the most formal and fitting for black-tie.

And with a softer shoulder too, to match the effortlessness of the south of France.

The bride, Nadine Loyd, and the officiant, Christian Allaire.

A few days later, the suit was completed.

I paired it with a white tank underneath, to give it a more easy-breezy vibe.

In France, the ordaining went off without a hitch.

The ordainer at workin the perfect suit.

My wedding fashion takeaway?

And now, my suiting game is totally leveled-up as a result.

You should, tooyoure worth it!