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Welcome to this movement of warriors!

One of my closest friends said this when I told her I was embarking onIVF.

It was an instant infusion of belonging and empowerment.

Taking that break set me up for what was to come.

Will I still feel like myself?Yes and no.

Am I strong enough?A resounding YESmore than I knew, in fact.

When the moment came I tried at least five times before asking my husband to do it for me.

I took the syringe back and injected myself.

I have performed that injection now countless times.

These injections can last the duration of an IVF cycle, and symptoms can vary.

Similar symptoms can arise at other points in a cycle as well.

Along with choosing an outfit for symptoms, dressing for appointments is another consideration.

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Sometimes, when a higher-rise pant with more give is needed, I rock myLyle Iver blanket pants.

An evergreen question is whether to keep my socks on in the examination room.

Everyones foot has been in the foothold!

And what about in the summer when I am wearing sandals?

The takeaway: I always have an extra pair of socks in my bag.

Maybe its all in preparation for whats to come.

For anyone embarking on their own journey, welcome to the movement of warriors.