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(What better way to excusebad behavior, after all, than by giving it a zeitgeist-y name?)

So, which paid dating apps actually feel worthwhile, and which ones feel…a little scammy?

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LikeCarrie Bradshawbefore me, I turned to my peers for insights.

I shouldnt pay for Raya, but I do because I love seeing the queer celebrities on there.

Its more for window-shopping.

I dont think its worth it.

Raya was my first paid app and in 2018, it was incredible.

That has changed drastically recently, with many more people [joining] but far less engagement.

Ive had friends who are high-end runway models struggle to get matches and conversations on Raya.

I think most people at this point dont really consider it worth it, but like being on there.

Theyre more compassionate, articulate, and secure in asking for what they want.

That combo is a frequency I really vibe with.

I have paid for roses and other features on Hinge before and found it to be NOT WORTH IT.

Same with Bumble Premium.