The latter enjoy sex, but its not a part of their personality.
Its something they do, not who they are.
I would be classified as a person who likes sex.
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For the former, though, sex is their whole world.
Its where a lot of their friends come from.
Its a hobby, almost.
In a strange way, I find it reassuring.
In school, my friend boughtFifty Shades of Grey, and wed do dramatic readings of it at lunchtime.
Its just nice that, as a culture, were now willing to admit its not for everyone.
We can let the people who get it, get it.
The weirdest and most embarrassing thing about you is probably something they can relate to.
So much of the time when were younger, we show off around our friends.
Were trying to prove ourselves, make ourselves seem worthy of people like them.
We dont connect, we challenge, and then we end up feeling more alone than ever.
Its sayingMe too,and if not,I see you.
When you have that sort of connection with someone, you become completely unselfconscious.
Youre just there, with them.
