Engagements have traditionally followed a familiar formula: oneproposal, oneengagement ring.
And, instead of just one engagement ring, there are usually two.
The practice makes sense.
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After all, what better way to start a lifelong partnership than with equal gestures of commitment and love?
Meyer was first proposed to by his partner Kyle Torrence.
The day after Kyle proposed to me I got to planning his counter proposal, says Meyer.
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I knew I wanted him to feel the way he made me feel, so I got to work!
The wedding planner wanted to treat his fiance to a counter proposal that was a personalized, grand gesture.
[He] wore an Acne suit with Prada shoes and a Prada bag.
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The night went according to plan and Torrence was truly surprised in the big moment.
Meyer advises that when planning a counter-proposal, its important to think creatively and prioritize your fiance.
Another tip from Meyer is not to feel as if your proposal must match or exceed the first one.
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So do not compare or compete.
Just do it from the heart!
However, he also says you dont have to do it all alone.
It can be a lot to plan a counter-proposal.
There is no shame in asking for help!
Finally, ensure the counter proposal staysa surprise.
Be sure to cover your tracks and hide the planning from your partner, recommends Meyer.
