While minds might turn to J.

On more than one occasion, I have stopped couples making silly andcostly mistakeson a whim.

Most people are only getting married once.

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Diane Keaton, Steve Martin, Martin Short, and Kimberly Williams inFather of the Bride.

While they may have been part of a siblings wedding or a friends wedding, they are not experts.

After all, why would you expend such a huge amount of money and stress without getting expert advice?

Their allegiance is to the venue, not the couple.

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After I received my certification and my business license in February 1999, I was on my way.

In fact, many of the most elevated and revered in the business just learned by doing.

She adds that her team continually upskills to learntrendsand adapt to the times.

Theres nothing better than to be able to experience for yourself how a wedding day and production works.

We need to understand the couple,their budget, and their story.

Daniels says she has at least 40 meetings with a client over the course of a year.

I do everything with my couples from attire shopping totastings.

In the beginning, we meet more if we are venue scouting as well.

Thats part of the relationship building that I value as well.

The only thing my clients do on their own is create their guest list.

Less surprising, perhaps, is that the day-to-day of being a wedding planner is not always calm.

A lot of additional behind-the-scenes work must also be done ahead of a wedding.

This task is sometimes finally squared away a few days after the wedding.

Then, if there are any last-minute pressing details, we discuss and resolve.

Planners often have teams that they delegate to manage moving parts like vendors,entertainment, and production.

The night does not end early for your planner either.

The strike and load out have the same energy level of the set-up!

I always want to know ahead of time if something is broken or missing, says Daniels.